Blog post by Sarah Christiansen @sarahjchristiansen
What is a sister? Merriam Webster defines sister as ‘a girl or woman regarded as a comrade’ and sisterhood as ‘the state of being a sister; sisterly relationship; the solidarity of women based on shared conditions, experiences, or concerns.’
“(The Villainettes is) family that isn’t blood. Support when you feel like you have none. Unconditional love with no judgement. A unique group of women that can make a large impact.”
Chelsea @chelsealr198
“(The Villainettes is) a family that doesn’t come from blood. Sisters near and far that I can rely on to offer support no matter the situation. A sense of belonging, and making a difference in the lives of others. Finding my niche. Unconditional love and support from women that understand, and can offer advice. Friendships for a lifetime! I am blessed to call each and every one of The Villainettes my sister!”
Steph @purplepiggy80
“(This sisterhood is) unconditional love and support without boundaries. All races, religions, and lifestyles (are) able to come together to support a cause, and mos of all, each other. I love the strength I have found within myself because of this sisterhood.”
Crissy @crissy_is_sweet
“Sisterhood showed me how to have sisters again and be a family! They gave me the confidence to love myself which I haven’t done in so long! To let me know I’m good enough! I love what the sisterhood brings! Just knowing there is always someone there when you need them, day or night!”
Chrissy @daughtrysgirl23
“For me, The Villainettes means support, comfort, friendship, and encouragement from a group of strong and lovely women. I’ve never felt this kind of love and support and I feel like I’ve found a whole new family. Becoming a Villainette has truly enriched my life.”
Erika @erikaharnstrom
“The Villainettes mean so much to me! As a single mom, I don’t get to go out very often, so, not many friends. This sisterhood has given me so many, not only friends, but sisters that feel close to me even if we live miles and miles away. They are there at 3:00 am ready to handle any concerns, problems, or rants we all have! To know so many sisters have my back and will push me to be my best self is beyond words! Knowing that I’m never alone in this world is such a blessing!”
Brit @britttautumn
The Villainettes sisterhood connects women in all phases of life. We laugh, cry, build each other up, promote awareness causes dear to us, and love each other dearly. We are fiercely protective of our sisters because we are family.
“The Villainettes showed me what having sisters actually meant. I now know that no matter what’s happening, what time of day it is, or where they are, my sisters have my back. I can’t imagine my life without them now.”
Mary @tough.as.tattoos
“This sisterhood means I am never alone. When everything goes wrong and I have no one near to turn to, I know I have sisters here.”
Leslie @batleslie413
“(This sisterhood) means eternal loyalty and friendship to me. No judgement. Encouragement and support, no matter what is going on, I feel inspired and loved by my TV sisters.”
Mandy @mzcephas
“The Villainettes mean everything to me. They are my friends, my family, and my job! I have been here for years and in four years I’ve had some of the best moments and experiences of my life. No matter what the day brings me, Villainettes bring me laughter, a smile, and comfort! The Villainettes to me mean family!”
Zara @bur_rabbit
“Villainettes means for me to have an extended family who loves and cares about me, as I do for them. It means friendship, in times where people no more believe in true friendship, neither true love. It’s a sign that there are still beautiful things to fight for in this world, and means that I will never be alone.”
Damaris @dami_damaris
“This sisterhood means to me that no matter where I am or how black the landscape looks, we will always be there to support each other. They are the family that one chooses!”
Ivette @zuritaivette
We’ve not all met in person, but we’ve connected in such ways it’s as if we’ve met. It’s as if we’ve known each other for years. When we’re fortunate to meet in person, we’re filled with such overjoyous emotion! My sister! Oh how I’ve waited for this day to hug you!
“The Villainettes sisterhood is more than just a group of girls. They are my friends, my family, my support system, and my life. It’s about growing as a person through the experiences that you have been through with them. It’s about never turning your back on any of them… even if you don’t get along all the time.”
Elisa @ladyelisav82
“To me, The Villainettes means someone is always there to support, encourage, and love you.”
Shiss @sherissalynne
“(The Villainettes) means support, unity, trust, growth, love, motivation, respect, & family! It means extended family across the world with open arms.”
Feli @felicia_chavez
“The Villainettes are my tribe, my family, my home. I have been to hell and back and I don’t know if I would have the courage or strength to pull through without them. And now, I can give back to those who need it. To be a Villainette means to never have to fight alone, to have an army of warriors who fight for you and you for them.”
Moa @miss_rowantree
“The Villainettes means so much. It’s like that little sister that’s always making noises (every time someone writes in one of every chat I’m in tears!) But you can’t live without! It’s family and a family that not just supports you, they support everyone around them. It’s like the big sister you admire and want to become when you grow up.”
Madde @madsees
So who are The Villainettes? We are a sisterhood of women from all over the world. We are all unique in personality and lifestyle. Our values connect us: Loyalty, Respect, Class, Family, & Charity.
“This sisterhood means love, support, charity, and understanding. It means I know I always have a friend when I need one.”
Laura @lauramichaela_author
“The Villainettes are my family, showing unconditional love, support, and encouragement. We are an amazing group of women.”
Mac @macsglitter
“The Villainettes mean acceptance and support. This sisterhood is the definition of family that I understood but never had. Joining The Villainettes means finding my place to secure my roots and grow.”
Teagan @tashleygyene
“What does this sisterhood mean to me? It's very simple. This is the family I never had, the family I always wished for. I’ve never felt this love and support in my life before I joined!”
Tati @tati_piercing_love_sisterhood_
“With a preteen daughter who already has issues with girls, this sisterhood means so much to me because through it, I am able to show my daughter how things should be. The constant support and never ending love. She gets to see amazing women who support and empower one another instead of ripping each other apart.”
Courtney @choltramsey
Being part of The Villainettes is not a passing phase. It is a group of women who lift each other up, love one another, cry and laugh with, a true sisterhood. It is not a commitment in which you must make room in your life to add this in. It is a commitment that becomes a part of your very being without force. You will have women around the world to enrich your life as you enrich theirs. To be accepted into this group is to receive an embrace from family. Being part of The Villainettes is discovering family you didn’t know you had and being loved from day one despite any of your own trials or celebrations.
“ The Villainettes means unity, empowerment, self-worth, love, and family. It means no woman left behind. It means a better future for us in hopes of showing other women what it means to be loved by your fellow woman.”
Robyn @divine_vigor
“The Villainettes mean family and support. Showing love and showing how courageous we are. It shows community, relationships, and trust no matter your background and always having someone there for you.”
Aretta @nonnie_i_am
“This sisterhood is union, it is a continuous support that you can count on, even if we are so distant, we are very close. The strength of so many women, so different but so alike. Respect is unconditional trust. It is something great that I could never have imagined having the honor of being part of it. Every day a new discovery, a new wonderful reality!”
Lorenza @worriorlolla
“The Villainettes started out for me as something to help me stay sober. This sisterhood has become something so much more. Yes all my sisters keep me on my toes and do help to keep me clean and sober, but that’s not all of it anymore. I’ve had the opportunity to get to know some wonderful inspiring women. I’ve had the opportunity to get to know some wonderful inspiring women. I have the opportunity to still get to know even more. These amazing women have been my foundation of stone when my world was crumbling. You all have been there at my lowest and you didn’t even know what horrible things I would have done to myself, but it’s like you all just know. And it hasn't stopped. This really is a family, I’m not just a face in the crowd, I’m actually seen here and honestly my own blood family doesn’t see me most days. They certainly don’t recognize cries for help but you all know where I’ve been on some degree and you guys just act selflessly each time. That’s what I love the most, the selfless need to better all we come in contact with. When I was in treatment, I heard a speech. The man said always leave things better than you found them. It stuck with me. The Villainettes leave everything better than they find them and that kind of sparkle and self love in the world, I wanted to be a part of. The Villainettes is a selfless loving family from all walks of life, a tribe, warrior women lifting each other up. Lord knows you all have lifted me up when I just wanted to sink six feet lower. My love for you all is unending.”
Kristina @queenstinabeana
Sisters are there for you. They welcome new additions to your family as if they are their own. If you have a baby, be prepared for hundreds of aunties to dote on your little bundle of joy! When it comes to weddings, we’re all your bridesmaids in spirit whether we can be with you on your special day or not.
Everything these ladies have said speaks to the amazing bond we all enjoy. This sisterhood has helped so many through difficult times, they truly care. When someone just needs to talk, there is always someone to listen. There is always someone to motivate you. There is always someone to share your joy. Sisters are truly amazing people!
